His name was Ronald.<\/p>\n
He killed himself by jumping off his apartment building.<\/p>\n
Because his wife left him for another man.<\/p>\n
Now, my regular readers know my posts are often lighthearted. I take my business seriously, sure. But I also like to inject a healthy dose of humor, too.<\/p>\n
Sorry, folks. Not today.<\/p>\n
Because there\u2019s simply nothing<\/em> funny about what happened to Ronald.<\/p>\n And, unfortunately, that same thing happens to too many people every day, all over the world.<\/p>\n\n What makes people like Ronald decide to take their own lives?<\/strong><\/p>\n It\u2019s a question I asked myself for a long time.<\/p>\n The short answer is: hopelessness<\/em><\/strong>.<\/p>\n They feel like there\u2019s just nothing left that\u2019s worth living for.<\/p>\n Obviously, few people simply decide everything in the universe sucks.<\/p>\n There\u2019s usually a catalyst<\/em>.<\/p>\n And, too often, that catalyst is a failed or failing relationship.<\/p>\n A girlfriend breaks up with her boyfriend. A fianc\u00e9e breaks off her engagement.<\/p>\n Or a wife leaves her husband.<\/p>\n Beth was the love of Ronald\u2019s life. I will never forget how happy they were at their wedding.<\/p>\n In fact, I remember it vividly. I was Ronald\u2019s best man.<\/p>\n Standing there at the altar, they were exuberant. There was a life full of love ahead of them. They would share with each other.<\/p>\n And then, too few years later, it was all over.<\/p>\n It broke my heart that their passion had gone cold<\/em>. It broke my heart that Ronald had been in such pain.<\/p>\n And it broke my heart that he couldn\u2019t talk to me about what he went through.<\/p>\n Because I could have helped him\u2014if only I\u2019d known.<\/p>\n I developed the Shogun Method<\/a> for one simple purpose:<\/p>\n I want to improve people\u2019s lives.<\/strong><\/p>\n People need love. They need love from the people they<\/em> love.<\/p>\n And that\u2019s not always easy to get.<\/p>\n The Shogun Method is my way of helping them get the affection they desperately crave.<\/strong><\/p>\n After all, it would have been selfish to keep these powerful secrets to myself.<\/p>\n It didn\u2019t dawn on me\u2014at least, not right away\u2014that my work might actually save<\/em> lives.<\/p>\n Even my best friend\u2019s.<\/p>\n There\u2019s nothing I can do for Ronald now. But I know there are others who endure the same agony he did. There are thousands of them, if not millions.<\/p>\n And if I can save even one of them from a bad decision, then it\u2019s all been time well spent.<\/p>\n There are three major delusions that ruin rocky relationships. <\/strong>They are:<\/p>\n If honesty worked, we never would have invented lying. Sure, it sounds ugly. But the truth is never pretty.<\/p>\n There\u2019s no such thing as altruism<\/em>.<\/strong> If you\u2019re with a woman, it\u2019s for your own happiness\u2014not hers.<\/p>\n And in a compromise, neither side gets what they want. What the hell is the point of that? At least one person should gain some benefit.<\/p>\n Now, here are the three real<\/em> things you need to know about how to make your ex want you back or how to save a marriage<\/a>:<\/p>\n Like I said, the truth is never pretty. That\u2019s how you can tell it\u2019s true.<\/p>\n Next, let’s go into each of these three ideas in detail…<\/p>\n Concealing intentions is a key teaching inside Shogun Method.<\/strong><\/p>\n I made it a fundamental rule because it is so crucially important<\/span><\/strong>.<\/p>\n If you fail to practice it, you are doomed to failure.<\/p>\n The simple fact is that humans resist <\/em>authority. We chafe at commands. We evade expectations.<\/p>\n And, although they may not always seem like it, women are most definitely human.<\/p>\n Thus, getting anything from a woman requires subtlety and guile. Women can\u2019t be told.<\/p>\n No, they must be manipulated<\/em><\/strong>.<\/p>\n And, obviously, you can\u2019t manipulate someone if she\u2019s aware of your intentions.<\/p>\n (Or, if your wife is a female sociopath<\/a> then she’ll already know what you’re trying to do.)<\/p>\n On the rocks with your girlfriend or wife? UNDER NO<\/u> CIRCUMSTANCES<\/strong> should you say things like:<\/p>\n “I\u2019ll do anything to make this work.”<\/em><\/p>\n “I only want us to stay together.”<\/em><\/p>\n “You\u2019re the most important thing in the world to me.”<\/em><\/p>\n If you do, you\u2019ve tipped your hand. It\u2019s all over.<\/p>\n So, once again: never be honest with a woman<\/strong><\/span>.<\/em><\/p>\n She\u2019ll see your endgame coming a mile away. She\u2019ll swerve to avoid it. You will crash and burn.<\/p>\n So what are you supposed to do?<\/p>\n As I said, a woman will turn and run from a demand.<\/p>\n But she will wholeheartedly pursue something that is evading her<\/em>.<\/p>\n To that end, feed her ideas like:<\/p>\n Have no doubt, if she\u2019s been pushing to split up, these will take her off guard<\/em>.<\/p>\n They will defuse any possible argument.<\/p>\n And, if you\u2019ve been resisting a separation, the change in attitude will definitely catch her attention… and keep her interested<\/a> on what you’re going to do or say next.<\/p>\n Now you need to use that attention and interest to your advantage<\/strong>. Continue reading to find out how to do this next…<\/p>\n You’ve read this far, which tells me one thing – your marriage may already be in critical condition. <\/strong><\/p>\n Has your woman decided to leave you? If she has, then you need to make her question<\/em> that decision. You must break her resolve<\/span>.<\/p>\n As we noted earlier, women resist<\/em> commands. They\u2019ll do the opposite<\/em> out of sheer resentment.<\/p>\n But, as we\u2019ve seen, women are highly susceptible<\/em> to manipulation<\/strong>.<\/p>\n So, now you must create doubt <\/em>in her mind about her decision.<\/p>\n When men doubt, we think logically<\/strong> and rationally<\/strong>. We analyze<\/strong> situations. We look for problems and pitfalls.<\/p>\n Guess what? Women don\u2019t<\/em> do this<\/span>.<\/p>\n Women think emotionally <\/strong>and intuitively<\/strong>. This is especially true about relationships.<\/p>\n Only later will women look back and use logic. And even when they do, it\u2019s only to justify whatever decision they\u2019ve already made.<\/p>\n In short, reasoning with a woman is futile<\/strong>.<\/p>\n Again, the key to success here is manipulation.<\/p>\n And the best way to do this is by using a Mind Control technique<\/a> called Implanted Commands<\/strong>.<\/p>\n Women react against a command because they see the command for what it is.<\/strong><\/p>\n The trick is slipping the command into her mind without her realizing it.<\/p>\n And guess what? This is not nearly as difficult as it might sound.<\/p>\n Implanted Commands contain instructions that you want a woman to follow. So, if you can state what you want, you\u2019re halfway there.<\/p>\n The trick is using other, innocuous <\/em>phrases to camouflage your commands.<\/p>\n This will prevent her from recognizing the command. As a result, it will slip into her subconscious<\/strong>.<\/p>\n There, it will go to work sowing confusion<\/em> and doubt<\/em>.<\/p>\n Let’s look at an example, alright?<\/p>\n In this case, she needs to doubt her decision to leave. Perhaps we want to play on her fear of loneliness.<\/p>\n We want to make her think: \u201cLeave me and you\u2019ll find yourself alone.\u201d<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n To camouflage this command, we could use the phrase: \u201cImagine what would happen if…\u201d<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n So, the Implanted Command in full would be this –<\/p>\n \u201cImagine what would happen if you leave me and you find yourself alone.\u201d<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n Makes sense?<\/p>\n Here are a few more examples –<\/p>\n \u201cSure, I could tell you that it\u2019s pointless to look for a better guy<\/em><\/strong>. But I won\u2019t.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cI\u2019m wondering if, eventually, this decision will turn out to be a mistake<\/em><\/strong>. I guess there\u2019s only one way to find out.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cDon\u2019t think that this means you should have second thoughts about your decision<\/em><\/strong>. You know that you need to stand by your commitment<\/em><\/strong>.\u201d<\/p>\n Easy, right?<\/p>\n Of course, you can use Implanted Commands to dangle a carrot, too.<\/p>\n For example:<\/p>\n \u201cAs time passes, you might wish for the safety and security we can have together<\/strong>.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n In this case, you\u2019re prompting her to long for the stable, positive aspects of your relationship.<\/p>\n You can also try:<\/p>\n \u201cI\u2019m not going to try to make you remember all the good times we had together<\/em><\/strong>.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cIt\u2019s a shame we\u2019ll never find out if we\u2019d actually be truly happy together<\/em>.<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cYou may get hung up on everything we shared together<\/em><\/strong>. Try not to obsess over it<\/em><\/strong>.\u201d<\/p>\n Sure, these might seem counter-intuitive. Remember, she\u2019s not analyzing these statements rationally.<\/p>\n Instead, she\u2019ll think that the Implanted Commands are coming from her own subconscious<\/strong>. She\u2019ll hear them in her own voice, not yours.<\/p>\n In short, she\u2019ll have no impulse to resist them<\/strong>.<\/p>\n Control a woman\u2019s imagination, and you will control her<\/em>\u2014completely and utterly.<\/p>\n Amazing, right?<\/p>\n Up until now, we\u2019ve been talking about psychological manipulation<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n But what we need to talk about now is pure Enslavement<\/strong><\/span>.<\/p>\n Let me ask you this:<\/p>\n Do you truly want to salvage and safeguard your relationship?<\/strong><\/p>\n Boyfriends and husbands, this is the only way for you to achieve true romantic security.<\/p>\n And it is guaranteed<\/em> to succeed.<\/p>\n What I\u2019m talking about is called Fractionation. It is a cornerstone technique used extensively in the Shogun Method.<\/p>\n Fractionation involves putting a woman into a trance<\/a>. <\/strong>Then you pull her back out of it again.<\/p>\n This is achieved by alternating between positive<\/strong> and<\/span> negative<\/strong> emotions.<\/p>\n You anchor the positive emotions to yourself. The negative ones get projected onto the outside world.<\/p>\n And you swing back and forth, repeating this process multiple times. This sort of dramatic emotional rollercoaster ride <\/em><\/strong>resonates strongly with the female psyche. This works even better if she has shown traits of narcissism<\/a> or sociopathy. (You know, the female equivalence of a Dark Triad<\/a> male.)<\/p>\n Inevitably, she\u2019ll become addicted to the positive rush she gets from being with you.<\/p>\n An addict will do whatever she needs to get her fix. She\u2019ll rearrange her entire life if it means easy access to that emotional high.<\/p>\n And that\u2019s the secret to a successful relationship.<\/p>\n How to make your ex want you back so bad?<\/em> Simple answer: use Fractionation<\/em>.<\/p>\n Read all the way till the end for a free resource on how to use Fractionation on women.<\/strong><\/p>\n In a sense, we\u2019re all emotional addicts.<\/strong><\/p>\n We all need that positive rush we get when someone loves us.<\/p>\n We all go into withdrawal and depression when we can\u2019t get what we need.<\/p>\n Fractionation is how you get it. <\/strong>It\u2019s easy. It\u2019s effective.<\/p>\n And, should you choose, it\u2019s permanent<\/em><\/strong>.<\/p>\n It hurts me, each and every day, that I was never able to share this with Ronald. Fractionation could have saved his marriage<\/a>.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n More than that, it could have saved his life.<\/p>\n And there are plenty of people in the world who share his woes.<\/p>\nBreakup Depression Is Not A Joke<\/h2>\n
Everyone (Read:You) Deserve To Be Loved<\/h2>\n
Three Things That Won\u2019t Save Your Relationship\u2014And Three That Will<\/h2>\n
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\n<\/strong><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n“Get Her Back” Principle #1: Always Conceal Your Intentions From Her<\/h3>\n
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“Get Her Back” Principle #2: Manipulate Her Using Implanted Commands<\/h3>\n
\n<\/strong><\/p>\nImplanted Commands: Psychological Tricks To Get Your Ex Back<\/h3>\n
How To Get Your Ex Back… And Enslave Her For Good<\/h2>\n
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