10, 15, 20 Year Age Gap Relationships: Can They Work?
Are you dating a woman who’s much younger or older than you are?
Or, if not, would you like to?
If so, then you’re in (or you want) what’s called an “age gap relationship.”
And there are a few absolutely CRUCIAL things you need to know… keep reading!
Table of Contents
- 1 10, 15, 20 Year Age Gap Relationships: Can They Work?
- 2 Age Gap Couples – Some Sobering Statistics To Know…
- 3 An Age Gap Relationship – Can It Work?
- 4 How To Date Younger Women
- 5 Mind Manipulation: Why It’s 100% Necessary
- 6 How To Make A Relationship With A Much Younger Woman Work
- 7 How To Make A Relationship With A Much Older Woman Work
- 8 How To Make Your Age Gap Relationship Work
Age Gap Couples – Some Sobering Statistics To Know…
OK, I’ll get straight to the point here:
Age gap relationships have exceptionally high rates of failure.
In 2014, Emory University in Atlanta surveyed 3,000 ever-married Americans. The researchers studied two things:
- Cost of their weddings, and
- How long their marriages last.
They found that the cheaper the wedding, the longer the marriage lasts. Which is kinda interesting, don’t you think?
But here’s what’s even MORE interesting. The study found that:
- Couples with a one-year age gap had a 3% chance of splitting up.
- Couples with a five-year gap had an 18% chance of splitting up.
- Couples with a 10-year gap had a 39% chance of splitting up.
- Couples with a 20-year gap had a whopping 95% chance of splitting up.
So, it’s clear:
The bigger your age gap with your woman, the higher your chances of failure.
Doesn’t sound too good, right?
Well, it’s not all doom and gloom – keep reading!
An Age Gap Relationship – Can It Work?
Does that mean YOUR age gap relationship won’t work out?
Of course not. It CAN work out.
You’ve probably seen couples with HUGE age gaps… and they’re happier than 99% of all other couples.
So I’ll say it again: It CAN work out.
However, here’s the CATCH:
You CAN’T treat it like a “normal” relationship.
There’s an age gap, so there are different rules.
And different rules mean you’ll need to take a different approach to success.
In this Shogun Method guide, you’ll learn everything you need to know to make an age gap relationship work.
And, yes – we’ll talk about how to date a much younger woman, and a much older one.
Let’s start with the younger ones!
How To Date Younger Women
So, if you’re interested in an “older man, younger woman relationship“, then here’s what you need to ask:
What do younger women need most from their man?
Without a doubt, it’s SECURITY.
Emotional security, physical security, financial security, etc.
Because generally speaking, younger women tend to be more naive and inexperienced. They’re “dreamers” who still believe in “happily ever after.”
And they know deep inside there will be struggles, disappointments, and tragedy ahead.
For this reason, a younger woman’s biggest need is security. They want the peace of mind that comes with knowing they WILL be safe no matter what comes.
Makes perfect sense, right?
Now here’s where it becomes a little sticky for you…
There are LOTS of guys who can give her that kind of security.
So, how do you make her want you, and no one else?
The answer: with a bit of mind manipulation, of course.
You’ll need to “trick” her mind into seeing you as the ONLY guy in the world who could give her the security she wants.
Now, in case you’re wondering: “Wait, isn’t that evil and manipulative?”, let me explain…
Mind Manipulation: Why It’s 100% Necessary
Is mind or psychology manipulation… manipulative?
Is it evil, though?
If you’ve ever been in relationships with women before, then you know this for a fact:
If you don’t manipulate her, SHE will start manipulating YOU.
In fact, if anything, women are inherently manipulative by nature!
How Women Manipulate Men
You know how women manipulate you, right?
- They blackmail you emotionally
- They give you the silent treatment
- They cheat on you just because they can
- They make you feel jealous
- They behave like an asshole until you surrender to their demands
- They make you feel guilty
- They play mind games on you
- They threaten to ruin your reputation in public
There’s no point being politically correct here. So, let’s face it:
Human beings are manipulators.
Mother Nature made us so.
You and I are here now because our ancestors manipulated:
- Their environments
- Their situations
- Their relationships
Imagine if they didn’t. They wouldn’t have survived, right?
And you know what? The same goes for your age gap relationship. If you don’t manipulate her, your relationship won’t survive.
Either she’ll manipulate YOU, which is bad…
…or some other guy will manipulate HER. Which is worse, because we can’t be sure that other guy has the best of intentions for her.
But YOU do! You want what’s best for her, right?
But you can only give it to her if you manipulate her before someone else does.
So, let’s get going before it’s too late, shall we?
How To Make A Relationship With A Much Younger Woman Work
Here’s the mind manipulation technique you’re about to learn next:
And here’s what’s exceptionally brilliant about this technique:
The more you use this technique, the more she’ll feel she’s in a “dream world” when she’s with you.
It’s like when she’s in this “dream world”, nothing else exists but you and her.
Here’s why emotional segregation is the best technique to use with a younger woman…
Your main challenges as an older guy dating this young lady are the following:
- Society might judge her as a “gold digger,” and this might dissuade her from dating you
- Her friends might discourage her from dating you
- Her parents might discourage her from dating you
- And other factors that might discourage her from dating you
Well, guess what? Emotional segregation TAKES HER AWAY from these factors whenever she’s with you.
You see, when you emotionally segregate her, none of these factors exist. It’s just you, her, and the complete security she feels when she’s with you.
In Shogun Method, I share five powerful ways to emotionally segregate a woman. In this guide, I’ll teach you the first one:
Here’s something that you must know in understanding relationships and women –
The more unique experiences she shares with you, the more she sets you apart from all other men.
But this isn’t limited to good experiences. You’ll want to go through BAD experiences with her, too.
In fact, you might even want to INTENTIONALLY get into bad experiences with her:
- Unmet expectations
- Life-and-death situations
- And any other “negative” experiences…
…so long as they’re balanced out with enough GOOD shared experiences.
Because ANY guy can share good experiences with her. (Yes, ANY guy.)
And yet, guess what? The strongest human bonds are formed in times of crisis and pain.
Think about it…
War. Natural disasters. Terrorist attacks. Family tragedies.
Pain tends to pull people together. It’s true.
And used correctly, it will only make your age gap relationship stronger.
Sounds good, right?
Great. Now, let’s move on to relationships with older women, real quick…
How To Make A Relationship With A Much Older Woman Work
Compared to younger females, older women are very different.
For one, they have no shortage of experience in the dating game…
Or, they may even be a bit jaded about the whole thing…
And here’s what’s for certain:
Older women have emotional baggage left over from past relationships.
All of that add up to their biggest need from a younger guy…
Sadly, most younger guys don’t know that when they want to date an older woman…
…and so, most of them screw everything up.
How Younger Men Screw Up Their “Cougar” Relationships
This is how guys screw up their relationships with older women…
They try to NOT add any more drama into her life.
They think that by giving her good feelings all the time, they won’t add more emotional baggage for her to bear.
Unfortunately, this is counterproductive.
Here’s what “happy feelings” to do her…
She gets so bored that she ends the relationship herself. And those guys STILL end up as an additional piece of emotional baggage for her.
Read this carefully because it’s important:
Mature women LOVE drama.
And because of their emotional baggage, older women don’t just LOVE drama…
They want it. They crave it. And guess what? They create it if they can’t find it.
How To Make Your Cougar Love You
So, if you want to stand out from the gaggle of younger guys vying for an older woman’s affections, here’s what to do:
Be ready to give her the excitement she so desperately craves.
And as you already know – that excitement should include both pleasure AND pain.
You must make her see you as being different – better, more exciting – than all the other young men.
So yes – Shogun Method‘s Emotional Segregation technique will also do that for you.
How To Make Your Age Gap Relationship Work
So, here’s the deal…
Whether your woman is much younger or much older than you…
…one thing’s for certain. She’ll need emotional drama.
And this is where most guys get worried.
They tell me:
“Derek, I’m not sure I’m ready to inflict pain or drama on my woman.”
Which is 100% understandable. We all grew up in a society that tells us to be nice to others at all times, right?
So, here’s my suggestion:
Instead of inflicting pain on your woman… simply learn to put her on emotional rollercoasters.
You already know how to make her feel good, right?
Carry on with that.
In addition, you simply need to alternate the GOOD emotions… with moments of pressure and discomfort.
How To Give Your Woman An Emotional Rollercoaster
The easiest way to do this? Just use your words.
Have conversations that make her feel intensifying cycles of pressure and pleasure.
Here are some ways of inflicting pressure on your woman:
- By reliving painful moments in her life or your lives together
- By talking about disappointments and frustrations
- By being the alpha male in the relationship that she wants you to be
- By imposing your authority and leadership (this is especially important)
- By making her follow your rules, and not the other way around
- By being one dominant son-of-a-bitch
- By not going with her preferences all the time
Well, guess what? It’s actually pretty easy if you know exactly what to do.
Good news: I share about this entirely in my Online Masterclass. In it, you’ll learn the master craft of giving your woman her dose of emotional drama.
And here’s the best thing: you’ll need nothing more than your words… carefully chosen to give her emotional rollercoasters.
In the link below, you can enter your best e-mail address to sign up for the Masterclass. If you qualify, I’ll e-mail your Invite Ticket right away.
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There’s good news… and some bad news.
The good news: Your age gap relationship CAN work out.
The bad news? You’ll need to do a little extra work.
Specifically, you’ll need to learn how to infuse it with some much-needed emotional drama.
Thankfully, it doesn’t have to be stressful.
In fact, with Fractionation, it can be ridiculously easy.
And you’ll love the results:
- She’ll absolutely love you and respect you
- She’ll follow you to the ends of the Earth
- She can’t imagine herself being with any other guy
And it won’t matter if she’s much younger than you, or much older!
You’ll be the last man she’ll ever want.
You MUST learn Fractionation. It’s the key.
So, don’t wait until she slips away! Learn Fractionation now.
I’ll see you in the Online Masterclass,
P.S: Are you in (or pursuing) an age gap relationship right now? Tell us your story in the comments box below!