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The Magic Ingredient of Seduction
Last Saturday, Mr X (of “The Player’s Guide” fame) came up to Singapore and we caught up over tea on a sidewalk cafe on Orchard Road.
He told me this story about two guys, Mark and Sam, who he coached in his super-exclusive, $3,997-a-year Player’s Guide Inner Circle in Santa Monica.
“Mark looks like a smelly bum off the back alley in the slums of Compton, no sh*t,” Mr X says. “And he’s not exactly super smooth either.”
“Well, at least he could pay you nearly four grand a year for coaching,” I replied.
Mr X laughed out loud. “He works as a computer techie, and he earns some $30,000 a year. Not exactly a baller, you know. But setting aside a few bucks out of that per year to sort his life out is a no-brainer.”
I nodded, knowing how much value Mr X provides for his Inner Circle clients.
Mr X continued, “Sam, who hailed from up north in Brentwood, is nowhere better than Mark. He’s really not much of a looker, and perhaps worse, he’s a janitor at one of the malls in downtown Santa Monica. But there’s something about him that makes him a little different…”
The one little thing that made all the difference
“Mark thinks that his failure of women is because that he’s a nerdy IT techie, and the fact that he stammered when he got nervous.
“When he joined us only last month, he told me that it’s hard for him to get ahead because he thinks that he is not attractive nor rich.”
“This is typical,” I replied. “Many of my clients think that too. That’s before they read How To Seduce Out Of Your League, where I busted all the common misconceptions that a guy would have, and completely reframed their perceptions about women.”
Mr X laughed again. “Of course, your book is required reading in my Inner Circle. In fact, the other guy Sam, who I made to read your book *5 times* before I let him loose.”
“The difference between Sam and Mark is that Sam actually looks forward to meeting women. He is a naturally fun guy, and likes to flirt with women. Instead of focusing on his negatives, he focuses on what he likes about himself.”
“No prizes for guessing who’s bagging the chicks then,” I smiled.
Mr X replied, “It’s Sam, of course. Mark’s still learning the ropes, and I don’t blame him. But Sam is having the time of his life, already seeing many beautiful women.”
“I can totally relate to Mark though,” I said. “I used to keep thinking about the things about myself which I totally hate. I thought that I had to perfect myself even before I should go out and make my first approach.”
“That’s a common mistake, ” Mr X offered, “And, you’re not alone in this. Guys actually think that you have to have certain traits in order to make women like them.”
“Money, muscles and more money!” I said with a chuckle.
Mr X turned serious. “It’s the lie of the century. You absolutely do not need money and good looks to get a good girl to like you.”
The Magic Ingredient Of Seduction
“I remembered that when I focused on my negatives, my mood turned bad. Being bitter and resentful, I sent out terrible vibes to the women that I meet, ” I said. “I can’t say that I was totally surprised when they rejected me!”
“But as I learned the stuff from the Zen Master, I was able to become more positive. Just like your student Sam,” I continued. “And guess what, dude. The results that I got was amazingly fast!”
Mr X remarked, “That’s what I call the Magic Ingredient of Seduction. I don’t want to sound like a pseudo-science nut, but positivity really attracts positivity. On the other hand, if you’re negative, don’t be surprised that only negative women flock to you.”
I laughed, “How true. I remembered that only thrashy women wanted to sleep with me. Geez.”
Mr X smiled. “I tell my Inner Circle clients that whenever they feel good about themselves, then women will naturally notice them. And once they master up the techniques I share with them in the Inner Circle, women will naturally be attracted to them.”
I nodded in full agreement.
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You don’t need to fork out $3,997 to join Mr X’s Player’s Guide Inner Circle, but you can get the manual and audio program that Mr X use as the core syllabus to improve his clients drastically. Click here for this resource.
Also, tell me what you think about this blog post, and any questions that you may have. Mr X might be able to reply to any questions you have here (he just boarded his flight home a couple of hours back) - just give him a day or two, ok?
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Awesome stuff as always DR… I do a routine where I visualize before I go out…it works..
this is a great post derek! its form is nice, meaning I enjoyed reading it and learned from it. Truth is I’ve heard about this stuff before, but I’ve always been giving greater attention on a technique or sth.. this stuff here is what is really crucial, and yes it has worked for me, and I’m gonna do it more frequently from now on.
Thanks!
lol atleast u coul get some thrashy women. i can’t get either
Vidhu - you’re defeating yourself. Nobody is doing it to you. Technique won’t work unless you have the attitude. Repeat after me, “YES, I CAN!”. Say it until you firmly believe it. Good looking women, trashy women, doesn’t matter. Stand up straight, look them in the eye, don’t flinch or waiver - and take them home.
i enjoyed reading this lol…problem i have with women is i cant seem to find anything interesting to say to them. thing is i can try to seem more interesting but it usually dont last for more than 30 minutes. i’m naturally a quiet guy, not interesting at all so women and guys pick that i’m just not being myself and trying too hard.i just recently got acquianted with this gal..i’m 27 she’s 29 turning 30. very upmarkert your typical uptown gal. i really wanna bag her how do i do it? she is also a typical bully.she is used to guys falling all over her on top of that she just came out of a relationship three months ago. she refuses to send me her pictures i inturn will not give up mine if she wont give hers….i have a good vibe about this one, please help asap!i’m black she is indian
Not a single woman is attracted to me…I don’t know why? its my bad luck…but thanks for giving me this nice article…I’ll try this
i dont have money to buy your product but i swear….this shit is real….covert hypnosis is what i want to hear about….this shit here is fake…..i want to know tha underground shit…..cuzz some one did that shit to me and it took a year in a half to find out about this….you need to tell me about that triad shit no joke cuzz this subject is like glass for the brain and its building a monster……
its just awesome !! i’ve never felt like i could get the girl i want before reading this post, you’re really helping many peolple out with thir self-esteem, i ‘ve tried some of your tips and they worked for me and i am just 17 !
Im a 20 year old guy from namibia.For the past 4 years i have been trying to propose this one gal i met at secondary school,but nomatter how hard tried i never succeded.I have told her more than 100 times how i feel about her but she just cant seem to come through.All she ever tells me is that she is not interested in me and that she has a boyfriend already.sometimes she doesnt even answer my calls or even reply to my sms,the reason being that i dont always have nice things to say,but believe me i have been charming to her as i have never been to any gal before.pliz help coz nomatter how i try to take her out of my mind ijust cant and that is really disturbing me emotionally..plz help,how can i cope with this situation
Aldrine,
put urself in her situation. i bet u’d get bugged by urself as well. my advice - stop stalking her.
man it was nice raeding it I my self i need help too often when spaeking to girls i feel inferior with my self and just get angrily easily and end up like a loser.AM bvery intelligent infact a genius by I.Q but a socialmisfit.the is my first year in the university plaese help me i have being raeding how to date out of your laegue but it has not help,pls help me.
@vidhu - I have no idea why you’d want to get involved with trashy women, when really you can get to choose. Really.
@vernon - Dude, begging is a bad idea, period.
@steven - You can get loads from this blog without paying a cent, but there’s good stuff in my books, you know…
@Aldrine - listen to sexy rexy and stop it. Enlarge your social circle and open your eyes to the possibilities…
@ANNSEL - email me separately; I will help you out
i am terrible with picking up woman and i’m only confident with ones that were my friends before but very good post excellent
My problem is that i feel too tall to talk to a lady. I’m 6 feet 4 inches tall. There are so many girls in my department in school i admire but always think that they will not like me. Please e-mail me the step-by-step ways in which i could break this barrier and become everywoman’s dream. My e-mails is jonath0012003@yahoo.com
Dude,I may need some help.I think I can do it,but I just don’t wanna take the chances.Can you help me out? There’s this girl,she had a boyfriend,but he’s an asshole,so they broke up.So he stopped talking to her,but she wanted to stay friends with him.So she started feeling bad and all…then,from the nothing,that guy started talking to her again and she was so happy that they got back together.But after 2 days he became the same asshole.I want to get to her,save her from that moron and make her happy.Oh,and he’s my friend,so no offending him…this is a really delicate situation,please help me out.
Thanks in advance
-Pain
i need some help. i am interested one of the girl she do not have a boyfriend from the school she seems quite. i am afraid dude i do not have a date b4 so what i can do to make her mine.