Trust me, I know exactly how it feels like when you’re totally bummed out in your quest to become better with women. I have been there before, buddy. But I can offer you the following advice - the things that I wished someone have told me when I was stuck.
1. Your ‘game’ is who you are. While modeling against successful people is often a good way to expedite your progress, try to carve a niche of your own. Learning routines such as “sexual value elicitation” and the October Man Sequence will do you no good if you’re not congruent.
2. Do an inventory of the materials that you have, and test them to see which works. And stick with the stuff that works.
3. Accept and acknowledge your situation. Know that you won’t be in this moment for long, as long as you do something about it.
4. Know that the Game is not be all and end all. Know what you want to become at the end of the process. Realize that seduction is not only about getting laid, but to attain a higher quality of life experience as a man.
5. Don’t become frustrated and angry - with the woman, or with yourself. Allow yourself to evolve and accept the situation as part of a learning and enriching experience.
Embrace the situation…and then let go. That is the essence of the mastery of seduction.
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