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How To Get Confidence “On Tap”
In this blog post, I am going to share with you the easiest way I know of that can quickly build your self confidence with women.
This method is ‘visualization‘. Now before you think you have heard it all before or have tried it but it didn’t work for you, just hear me out here.
Now let me first explain to you why visualization works, if you are not convinced. You see, the mind cannot tell the difference between ‘real‘ and ‘imagined‘ experience.
So, if you imagine something vividly enough, your mind will believe it to be REAL.
How do we use this then? Easy. Just ‘trick’ your mind to believe that you are super confident when you interact with women.
This method has been tried, tested and proven, so don’t be concerned.
You see, most people who tried this technique do it wrongly. The correct way to visualize is to BE part of the experience. See everything with your own eyes.
Bottom line - DON’T BE AN OBSERVER. Be *IN* the visualization.
So, if you want to practice approaching a woman, SEE the woman in front of you. YOU are INSIDE your body. In other words, DON’T watch a ‘movie’ of you approaching that woman. Instead, look at the interaction through your OWN EYES.
It makes a whole world of difference!
I cover this technique in great detail in the “How To Seduce Out Of Your League” book from pages 12-16, where I outline a method which is deadly effective in getting confidence ‘on tap’.
Check out the technique (and many more other little known tricks which you can use to get better with women) here.
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Thanks Derek, excellent tip.,..not only relevant for sarging, but also for other areas of one’s life, particularly career
Excellent stuff, Derek. Perhaps you could enlighten us on more ‘inner game’ stuff - Hypnotica, Steve P, the likes.
As someone profound once said, “all game is inner game”. I tend to agree with that. Routines, openers and “LMR Blasters” could only get you that far.