Until recently, I was one of your everyday average guys who just never seemed to be able to get the girl. It didn’t matter what I did, it was wrong.
You see, I was tremendously BAD with women that I felt utterly worthless, unattractive, and of course, unhappy.
You might have felt like this at some stage of your life too. And I’m sure you’ll agree that it’s not very nice.
I kept persevering, but with each unsuccessful meeting and each rejection, I became more and more depressed.
Finally, when I had hit rock bottom, I made a promise to myself to overcome this obstacle that was stopping me from meeting and dating the right women.
Now, I not only have lots of dates, but I have lots of dates with beautiful, smart, witty, amazing women. And amongst them, have even been some 9’s, and a handful of 10’s. There’s no need to tell you how incredible that feels.
Naturally, dating beautiful women and models is not going to provide you with an inner happiness, however, it will give your self-esteem a huge boost. And that is what makes it all worthwhile.
So how did I discover the Secret to meeting and dating the right women?
Well, I did attend a few seminars. I also read some self-help books and listened to inspirational tapes, but none of them really helped me at all.
And this is where it all changed… 
I was then introduced to the Master through the recommendation of an old pal and became one of his first seven disciples who schooled in the art of seduction.
It was during this period when I absorbed as much as I could by learning from the Master, and formulated the Zen Seduction method.
My life took a drastic turn that moment onwards. I religiously recorded almost everything the Master said, and took action on them.
Slowly, my skills with women began to improve, and I could only thank the Master for taking me under his wings.
One of the more profound things that the Master said to me was, “If you want to start to be better with women, do this one thing. Watch people .”
As usual, I was stumped with his cryptic answers. I pressed him for an explanation.
“Watch people?”
He smiled knowingly.
“Yes. Observe how people interact. How they mingle. How they communicate. And you will realize that all the
men that were getting the women had similar characteristics.”
You might laugh, but after extensive research on the techniques and processes of dating, involving studies on (or ‘watching’!) guys with a natural gift for ’scoring’, I believe I have found an answer.
Naturally, it’s not THE answer, but it works for me. And, at the end of the day, isn’t that what all guys want: to learn the secrets of ‘getting the girl’?
This is where it gets REALLY interesting…
I didn’t understand at first, so I immersed myself in the dating world, by befriending a group of guys who were comfortable; and more importantly, successful - with women.
However, I was confused. They would say and do things I would never have dared say or do to a woman such as jokingly suggesting to her that she was using a line to pick them up or by mocking her. And after that, these guys would still end up getting her number!
So, I watched what they did and studied their techniques.
Then I modified them a little, created a system, which I tested out on a number of women, and you won’t believe it - this system actually worked.
Combining this with the Master’s deep insights spoonfed to me over a period of one year, the Zen Seduction System was born.
I didn’t believe it myself and I don’t expect you to either, but it’s true! And, it has absolutely nothing to do with physical appearance, or social status for that matter.
After a short while, I no longer felt like half a man to whom no woman was attracted. I had found the ‘new’ me. With this knowledge, I had become a cool and confident guy to whom women were drawn.
I was so excited to have discovered this secret that I just couldn’t keep it to myself. I wanted other men just like me to have the same chance as those ‘popular’ guys.
I mean, why should some guys have an unfair advantage over others ?
The answer is they shouldn’t.
Having stumbled on the find of the century, I thought it my duty to all guys struggling in the dating stakes, to let them also have the chance to know how wonderful it feels to be able to attract a girl who is gorgeous or funny or smart, or all three.
So, this was what I did…
I wrote down everything I had learned and devised into a system. This blog will feature specific tips, insights and techniques from this system.
Of course, I know that you will be skeptical when it comes to believing my tips really work - and so you should be. I don’t proclaim to know all the dating secrets, but I do know some of them. And they have worked for me, which means they could work for you too.
Through this blog, you can really keep abreast of the latest cutting edge seduction tips and techniques as my newsletters are updated regularly and are filled with loads of useful information to help you meet and
date the right women.
I would even venture to say that the blog posts here at DerekRake.com are more valuable than most ebooks you find out there today.
I know that this is a fairly bold claim but once you have read it, I could almost guarantee that you will agree with me.
This blog could be your stepping-stone to a happier life. I can’t wait to share with you the dating secrets I’ve discovered, so that you too can have the confidence and technique needed to make women want to be with you.
So where now to start?
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