When we talk about Natural Attraction, a few things come to mind.
First, we know that the interaction between you and the girl wasn’t forced, and you didn’t go out of your way to place yourself in that position. It just happened. Not all men know how to react when placed in a dating situation that [...]
When one becomes a student under the Zen Master it is an advantage that he is always involved with his students’ progress and can provide tips specifically for the Mastermind group.
Last Friday afternoon we had yet another session with the Master (who was joined by Mr X - author of The Player’s Guide) in his leafy gardens in Petaling Jaya suburbs where we talked about some of the more advanced Zen Seduction tactics - how to use the ‘Pre-Qualification Tactic’ to generate attraction in women.
Below an excerpt from one of our discussions which includes a rather ‘ingenious’ adjustment to one of the questions posed to the Master.
On Wednesday I had gone to visit the Zen Master in the leafy suburbs of Kuala Lumpur, where we spent an hour in his serene yard enjoying Lapsang tea and talked on our favorite topic of the psychology of seduction and influence.
“Derek, I want to share with you today a very powerful method for creating strong attraction,” said the Master.
“Here’s a good exercise for you to improve on any skill - not only for dating and seducing women,” said the Master.
“Have you ever looked at yourself from a third person’s point of view? Have you stepped outside yourself and observed your behavior when you are around females?”
I shook my head.
“Then do this,” continued the Master, “Visualize yourself talking to a woman you just approached, and want to close.”
Imagine a man in a social circle, speaking to a group of man and woman. He charms and dazzles the crowd, and seemingly has an infinitely large list of topics to talk about. He leads the discussions and chats effortlessly.
He is simply enchanting, and could seemingly go on for hours. He is in the proverbial “flow”, and you could see that his audience is captivated by him, hanging on every word that comes out from his mouth. The group nods almost in unison and cracks out in laughter once in a while.
Simply put, the ability to captivate an audience through words is the most potent weapon a seductionist can have in his arsenal.
It was one of my weekly coffee sessions with the Master at the Starbucks outlet at The Curve, one of the more upmarket shopping malls in the suburbans of Kuala Lumpur.
The subject matter of discussion was on the ways to turn a friend into a girlfriend. This perhaps is a topic close to the hearts of many guys who have female friends who they know platonically.
So what does it really needed to take a relationship from platonic to sexual?