Question from a reader of The Rake Letter (http://www.TheRakeLetter.com) - When I tell women that I am still single, most of them would express surprise as I am considerably attractive and also relatively successful (Ivy League degree, promising investment banker). However, women usually stop returning my calls after a couple of dates. Also, when I step into the bar or club, I would get almost no notice at all. Why? This is driving me nutters.
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In this blog post, I am going to share with you the easiest way I know of that can quickly build your self confidence with women.
This method is ‘visualization’. Now before you think you have heard it all before or have tried it but it didn’t work for you, just hear me out here.
In his seminal ‘underground’ book on seduction “Real World Seduction“, Swinggcat described a technique called “push pull”.
In a nutshell, the technique is about the process of pushing the girl away and thus create the ’space’ to pull her back.
Imagine a man in a social circle, speaking to a group of man and woman. He charms and dazzles the crowd, and seemingly has an infinitely large list of topics to talk about. He leads the discussions and chats effortlessly.
He is simply enchanting, and could seemingly go on for hours. He is in the proverbial “flow”, and you could see that his audience is captivated by him, hanging on every word that comes out from his mouth. The group nods almost in unison and cracks out in laughter once in a while.
Simply put, the ability to captivate an audience through words is the most potent weapon a seductionist can have in his arsenal.
It was one of my weekly coffee sessions with the Master at the Starbucks outlet at The Curve, one of the more upmarket shopping malls in the suburbans of Kuala Lumpur.
The subject matter of discussion was on the ways to turn a friend into a girlfriend. This perhaps is a topic close to the hearts of many guys who have female friends who they know platonically.
So what does it really needed to take a relationship from platonic to sexual?
I approached the Master with a question.
“I want to increase my knowledge of dating and seducing women. Apart from studying with you, I’d like to also learn from another master so that I get to know of another style of seduction.”
What do you think, Master?”
The Master answered, “The hunter who chases two rabbits catches neither.”
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